THE FAMILY ALTAR
July 25.
"The fruit of the Spirit is long-suffering." Gal. 5:22.
Long-suffering means not to be easily provoked, to bear injuries
and wrongs for a long time, to forgive and spare offenders. God
is long-suffering with us, He does not deal with us after our sins,
nor reward us according to our iniquities. In fact, God's long-
suffering is our salvation, as Peter tells us in his second epistle.
If, therefore, God had such patience with us and did not cut us
down in His wrath when we proved barren, unfruitful trees, but
spared us and continued with His Word and Spirit to convert
and save us, should not we be long-suffering also with our erring
brethren, patiently bearing with their faults and in all love and
gentleness teaching them to do better? A certain mother had to
repeat her lesson nineteen times before her little child grasped it.
Hearing it, the father exclaimed: "How could you tell the child
the same thing over and over again nineteen times?" "Because
he had not learned it at the eighteenth time," sweetly replied the
patient mother. Many a dull pupil at school has blossomed into
a bright scholar because of the infinite pains his faithful, patient
teacher took with him. Again, many wayward sons or daughters
could have been saved from their downward career if their parents
had been more long-suffering with them and had prayed more for
them. "A soft answer turneth away wrath; but grievous words
stir up anger." (Prov. 15, 1.) Many a man could have been won
as a friend, even kept with the Church, if, instead of upbraiding
and angry words, he had heard a kind and forgiving word in
season. While regarding the mote in our brother's eye, let us not
forget the beam in our own eye. Let us ever remember how much
we need the long-suffering mercy of our God and Savior. As his
redeemed children let us reveal the same patient spirit toward our
fellow-men. "The fruit of the Spirit is long-suffering."